The following ten additions really focus on your personality and being able to create a pleasing personality to accomplish that goal of success…

11. Take Inventory of yourself:Build that self esteem and that self-confidence. Think about all the ways you positively and not-so-positively act and interact with others. Then create a list and get to work on those skills that need deepening and those you need to shed. One-at-a-time.

12. Set Goals for yourself:Here are two quick ideas for your goal-setting process. First set those long term “I want these goals,”with dates and a serious time frame to follow, and then Secondly and just as important set goals for each step and interaction along the way. You do realize that you just cannot go it alone; so why not have a plan in place for your “interaction with others.” In both circumstances, Be sure to know what you want, think about how you can accomplish it and how others can help you reach your goals (always be sure to give back more than you are trying to get - karma is a bitch) and then decide on just how to approach them; again, one-at-a-time.

13. Be Charismatic:“It is an intangible quality that makes people follow you, admire you, and just want to be around you.”Don’t interrupt, don’t mentally cut off the other person and more so, do not load your mind with comments and answers while the other person is still speaking. Wait till they finish and wait until you are sure they have finished and then just be you!

14. Do unto Others:You need to treat each person exactly how you would like to be treated. Treat them as if they are truly important; because they are! Believe me; you will be amazed at how successful this technique will work for you.

15. Flattery:Yes, flattery can get you everywhere. It can also get you nowhere! If you want flattery to work as a success-tool for you it must be sincere. People know when you are full of it, just like you know when they are. If you don’t really feel it, don’t say it!

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