Just yesterday I saw a program on spirtualism on TV which caught the attention of my ever racing thoughts about people and relationships. It presented a simple thought 'In relationships,you attract what you give.'It sounds so simple but has such a deep thought which might be an answer to many things which make us wonder why certain things happen. When you are giving love ,care in a relationship you are giving it because you want and expect the same in return. But maybe what we don't realise is that we are doing it with the same expectation that it will be returned and might overlook what the other person is doing for us.We say we feel happy with so and so particular person because we have given out such vibrations and energy to feel happy with that person . It is not because that person has done something but how we have given out those energies to that person whcih is making us feel happy. Here expectations arise and if we don't get it back in return we say that the other person has changed or does not care . But the point is that we are ourselves creating that energy and expectations for our own satisfaction.It starts bothering us a lot when someone close does not fulfil our expectations and respond the way we want him to. But we might be overlooking that he or she is doing his own bit and giving out his energies to us as he wants to. Only when both the energies perfectly match can we be blissfully happy together (which happens rarely or rather temporarily).But leaves us pondering on why people change . Maybe it is our own thoughts and expectations created by them which make us happy or sad and not the other's.