Relax, I have too experienced some of these in gyms, not only chisel but others also. Today gyms are basically a good business because we as individuals have not maintained our life style. After working out for 2 years in chisel I never got any benefits of membership. But I was smart enough while Joining to try for first month and then pay for one year, Guys any gyms just promise everything but it is on you to decide.
I was working out in gym but never got any individual respect been lady. As I think I was too strong to stick with my own exercises and not allow anyone to hold me and waste time for any talk. been with trainers I hardly use to look at them and talk.
I think these kinds of places are more or less to be maintain discipline then to put your trainers on top of the head. I do agree lots of girls over there with trainers whether personal training or general they were there to enjoy and expose. I always thought it is none of our business to feel out of place about it. they are not doing any wonders to us. they are doing wonders to trainers and themselves free of cost. which is foolish idea to get attention.
I also had one bad experience with trainer when my abs trainer had not come. That day some other abs trainer helped me out while doing the variation he started pointing me out that which guy is gay and which not. I was shocked and I showed him that I hardly was interested in his bullshit talks. He got so annoyed that he started to snigger at me for few days. Finally I just got chance one day to speak to him again. I just whispered at me "Some people feel great about themselves having nothing than few grans of salary which comes from people like us with respect to the company and the company is not bothered teach any of their staff basic rules of manners" that day after he was never seen in my timing of gym. The day I go in different time he was out the floor for that much time.
Nothing else more than this could have hurt him. Guys one suggestion is any gyms you join do not depend on gimmicks. but depend on your capability whether you can utilize in best possible way or not . I have left chisel now. Definitely not interested joining any other gym also as it is waste of money for such waste headache. I better walk in cool air whether morning or evening then seeing these kind dirty people in my life and once a week I prefer to pay some 100 bugs and do steaming to release my toxins.