This is somewhat sensitive review and not intended to create any difference between a happy couple, leading a nice married life. Despite this extra marital affairs happens and husband or wife does not come eye to eye to find the truth. Again I would like to add that one should be careful and attentive before he or she is getting a divorce notice.
I would like to narrate the reasons why these relationships develop. Although if you go thru the latest TV serials on almost all the TV channels, you will find the same story of extramarital relationships develops and spoils the life of the children.
But we can not turn away our face from the relationships happens and even the man and woman engaged in the relation, fails to understand, when such relations developed between them.Obviously this leads to bedroom and there is no exit from the relationship.Surprisingly the engaged couple ignores their family and love of the most attractive better half.i want to know whether this is a physical sexual need or mental need, which is ignored.
I have just tried to find out ten signs mentioned herewith, which you may find in your partner and be careful then and there.
Changing attitude toward your relationship: more argumentative, critical or distant -- less affectionate -- increased need for "space"
Unexplained absences: staying later at work -- leaving the office for lunch more often -- spending more time "with friends" or pursuing a new hobby during evenings and weekends --frequently off running lengthy "errands"
Increase in personal expenses: seems to go through pocket money at a faster rate -- credit card spending jumps
Changing telephone use patterns: spends more time on the phone -- seems anxious to be first to answer phone when it rings -- mysterious incoming calls, hang-ups, "wrong numbers" -- suddenly "needs" a new cellphone or pager
Greater attention to personal appearance: begins a crash diet or exercise program -- trendy new wardrobe, fragrance, hairstyle or nails
Added interest in the mail: wants to limit your access to it, especially phone bills, bank, and credit card statements -- personal letters (but probably not postcards) from a long-lost "friend" or "relative"
Articles of unknown origin: slips of paper with names, phone numbers, dates/times/locations stashed in pockets, wallet or purse -- receipts showing unmentioned purchases -- matchbooks from unknown bars or restaurants -- strange cigarette, gum or food wrappers in vehicle
Mysterious bite marks, bruises, scratches, skin irritations: can’t explain how "that got there"
Changing sex drive: decreased interest in sex -- more aggressive/hostile during sex and less tender/romantic -- newfound knowledge regarding a previously unexplored technique or position
Unexplained odor or stain: comes home smelling of cologne or tobacco that is clearly not their own -- lipstick on shirt collar -- stained clothing.
I wish that all the couples married and living happily married life. But don’t be afraid but be cautious and try to find out what circumstances had led him or her to such relationship.After all both male and female are human beings and human psychology, physical demand, demand of love and affection(ignored or denied) or less interest in sexual relations, less aggressiveness on the part of female. may be some of the reasons. Some times everything appears ok but certainly there is something in the mind of either male or female, which attract him or her towards another person.
Many a times, husband or wife are not at wrong path but circumstances just arrives and it happens.
But we may be attentive and careful for our better half with love and affection, proper caring and dedication to each other.
Ravi Sharma
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