*After a long time I am getting in touch with all my dear ones sitting on the other side and wish to convey my good wishes and communicate my feelings linked with personality development.
I want to quote the words of Swamy Vivekanand, who once said:
"This I have seen in life
-he who is over-cautious about himself;falls into dangers at every step.
-he who is afraid of losing honour and respect, get only disgrace.
-he who is always afraid of loss, always losses.
If we think of above quotation, it appears that Swamy ji just communicated that in life one should not always have calculations about his personality and gains/loose at every step. There is always a super natural power who takes care of our acts. We just have to take care of our works but not with worries and lot of calculations. One should have some level of ease in his/her personality.
Now further to add I want to pen down the following key success points and hope this wil help to our people in large.
Speak to people" There is nothing as nice as a cheerful greetings
Smile: It takes 72 muscles to frown only 14 to smile
3.Call people by name: Everyone is pleased when you remember their name.
4.Be friendly and helpful and others will take your care in like manners.
5.Speak and Act as if everything you do was a genuine pleasure..
6.Be genuinely interested in people and they will also respond in positive way for you.
7.Be generous with praise- cautious, cautious and criticism
8.Be considerate with the feelings of others, it will be appreciated.
9 Be thoughtful of the opinions of others, there are always three sides of any controversy- yours, the other one’s and the right one?
10 Be willing to give service, what counts most in life is what we do for others
I do not want to expand every points as every point is self descriptive.If we think on it and keep on detailing at our end. we will always be at a better side for ourselves development spiritually emotinally and ...lots more
Ravi
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