Valentine’s Day is just round the corner and this year Muthalik is not around to mess it up. Most of your friends have a partner and you do not really want to accept the fact that you do not have a partner. But then, that is a hard fact you just have to live with. What will you do? Don’t lose heart; here are some ways which may get you a date for this Valentine’s.
Look your best. Invest in some new clothes, or some swanky new gadget. Look uber cool and have the right attitude. Girls don’t come calling. Well that is a myth, these days, sometimes, they do. But we do not want to take chances right? So let them know that you are available. How will you do that? A single status on the social networking sites help. Easier still, let it slip to a couple of girls in your team, under the oath of secrecy of course, that you do not have a partner, and trust me, it will get you the desired result if she knows about some girl who may like being with you!
If there is someone you have always had a crush on, this is the right time to connect with them. Call them up, leave a message, and if you get lucky, there is nothing to beat it. A Valentine’s Day spent with someone you can’t connect with is even worse than one spent alone. Send out sweet ’will you be my valentine’ message to some random mobile numbers. Someone may respond, if you have a wrong number you can always excuse yourself, but if by any chance your message is delivered to someone equally lonely, why not push your luck a wee bit. Some such ’wrong number’ calls have the history of ending up in marriages!
Hit at your friends- friends. Well, we don’t want to make it sound shady. But consider this – your best buddy may have a girl friend and she would have a friend who is not committed. Try hinting that you would like to accompany her – plan a double date – after all she is single isn’t she? Social networking sites have opened up new vistas. Explore, spend time on it. Look up ex-flames and crushes on these sites. Who knows when you could turn lucky?
If you are the type who loves dogs, find one to take out for a walk. The cuter the dog the better, girls have a weakness for men who does this. If you don’t have a dog and are sure where to find the girl, trust me, it is not bad to borrow a friend’s dog for this purpose. Just make sure that the dog does not bite you or the girl!
Stalk. It is not a crime, everything is fair in love and war remember? At the cafeterias, cafes, shopping malls. If the universal thumb rule for love is correct, there should be someone some where made just for you. And you can’t just ignore the fact that she may be at these places. And once you have shortlisted some, make sure you speak in you phone, loud enough for them to hear, ’Dad, I m not interested in an arranged marriage, I ll get married to someone I like, ’ and give her a sheepish grin.
If none of these work, no hard feelings, love will happen to you in due course. Till then, you can just have a ball and indeed there is nothing stopping you from throwing a ’single’s’ party at home. And hope someone may turn up, who is just right for you!