Hi Everybody. After writing my last review in a thoroughly bad mood. I am writing this one as happily as ever. Many great reviews have already been written on this, such as by jai_coer and kalil.rehman. I thoroughly urge you to check those out alongside some others. Mine is just another boring review alongside the other great ones.
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Ever heard the quotation?
To Be Trusted Is A Greater Compliment Than To Be Loved - George MacDonald
I believe that quotation to be true. I mean, you’re loved by people, you feel cherished and happy when you are loved. However, when someone trusts you, it is just an amazing feeling. People may think that I am overexaggerating, but it is a great feeling. Just knowing someone believes in you and your abilities, someone finds meaning in your words, the message you are reaching out through yourself is being heard by someone else.it is just an amazing feeling.
Mouthshut Trusted Circle nurtures that feeling inside you. OK, I wake up one morning, and hey someone has trusted me. To some people, No Big Deal, but to me.
It always brings a smile to my face and generally just puts me in a good mood for the rest of the day. To me, it shows that someone has trusted me, but through my reviews, through my profile. It opens up a new inner me. It reveals to me that the message I am portraying through my reviews is being read. It shows to me that my opinion, my points, my style are all being respected and cherished. Respect.
- I must respect the opinions of others even if I disagree with them - Herbert Henry Lehman
It is great for me that people who do not see eye-to-eye with my still think that I am worthy enough to trust. The world should have more of these people. Respect is another feeling gained from the Mouthshut Trusted Circle. Someone is respecting your opinions, in other words respecting you. It is another amazing feeling which makes you feel obliged and just really.wordless. I respect the people who have lots of people in their trust list. It shows that over the months, their efforts have been recognised, respected and cherished. Those who don’t have that many just show that their efforts are yet to be recognised. To those who don’t, just keep riting, surely one day your efforts and your views will be recognised and respected.
Just having one person trust you shows that you have the ability to write wonders. Just having one person leave a nice comment or a suggestion on your review, shows that you have the power to improve. The Mouthshut Trusted Circle gives you a sense of independancy and the need to work harder to impress more people with your reviews.
Another thing I would just like to say to MS Members. Trust as much as you want on MS. I am overjoyed when I see someone with many trusted members on their list. It shows that their have recognised the efforts of many people on MS. Never think that your trusted circle has to be smaller than the list of people who trust you. It is never like that. You have the chance to trust freely on MS, without getting that hurt, so why not use it. With people you know, I would advise you to think more carefully. But with trusting someone on MS, what have you got to lose?
Distrust List. I am not too sure I agree with the Distrust List on MS. It doesn’t give you a smile.it leaves you with an unfilled feeling. I remember for a short period of time, I was distrusted by a friend. However, I can remember that in that short period of time, I would try harder with my reviews. That is a good thing of the Distrust List. It gives people a sense to work harder. However, one of the bad things about the distrust list is that it is made up of revenge rating or commenting. If someone leaves a bad comment, or a low rating, they are suddenly distrusted. What I really hate to see if someone who has written no review, no comments or no ratings distrust someone. It is just sickening.
However with the distrust circle, if someone has said something bad, if you cant trust someone, if they have copied, if they have done wrong, why not use the distrust circle? Just remember, don’t feel disheartened if you are on someone’s distrust circle. It should encourage you to work harder.
Comments And Ratings Most Eagerly Awaitedand remember.
It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to be sometimes cheated than not to trust - Samuel Johnson