My dear friend, I have read ur review on the above subject. Reg, the same, I would like to make some comments.
1st - pornography is not a woman related issue, nething that provokes sexual fantasy of neone - that act of provoking is called pornographic act. Just to make u aware that children pornographic photos are also very popular in internet and mags and so are the male strippers (courtesy various official statistics)
2nd - That woman are forced to pornographic act is not completely true, I ve just read a BIG
article in TIMES OF INDIA, about a pornographic Star jus a few days ago, u may please care to read the same - that woman has opted the profession by her own choice, and overall has no regrets abt the same. And when I read that article, I thought she represented the voice of a substantial woman pornographic actress if not the majority.
3rd - ( this is a personal opinion )- sex is just like any other emotion, like u laugh like u cry, like u hate like u love, in the same way u have this sexual instinct , its very much normal.
If u c a small child, very often, u feel like loving him, if u c a old man in misery, at times u feel like sympathizing with him, in the same way if u are a boy, n u c a girl , very often u ( ok not u , u look reluctant - I will change that u to ’i’). So, in the same way , when I c a woman, very often I feel sexually attracted towards her and often fantasize how she will look on bed, and I don’t find any thing wrong with it. For me, its as natural as u feel like pouring all ur love to a small, cute ’golu-golu’ child, in the same way, I feel like having sex with most of the attractive woman that comes in ur , eh sorry - my way....
its a pity that , we have prisioned our self with certain philosophies, which may luk ethical on paper, but r unnatural and impractical. I repeat, any natural tendency, irrespective of how good or bad its judged by society, if ignored, will only and ONLY have fetal results. So anyone who’s trying to control anger, is very much expected to explode many a times in life, ending up with either breaking his bones, or someone else. In the same way, someone , who tries to control natural evolving instinct of sex by pseudo and unnatural philosophies (however ethical they may sound ) is sure to create a lot of trouble for himself, and his sex partner, (much much more than someone who accepts things naturally the way they are....)
About pornography - its just like ne other profession, as good or as bad as ne other business. if u can accept sex as a natural human need, I don’t think, there will be a problem in accepting that most of us like to have sexual fantasies, and that is not a male male thing. Woman too fantasies, in the same way as man do -at maximum, they have their own way of expressing it to their close ones - but the sexual attraction is there - as equal as that of man, or may be a bit more - cause traditionally woman have been instructed to be shy of this issue - and every action has equal and opposite reaction - so if u try to shy way, from something , then it will appeal to u more.
So like u want to eat good food, there are thousand kin of foods styles in market which u can select from – spicy , sweet, sour, and a lot of mid categories in between, and if u want to look different u got hell lot f wardrobes, cosmetics and other make up accessories .In the same way, if u wan to satisfy ur sexual desire, u have different ways for it and pornography is just one of the many ways - nothing more nothing less. Now , its up to us, we can accept it as a very natural thing, which I believe it is, or we can spent half of our life in struggling with our natural tendencies and rest half in regretting that we failed.....
peace all.....