Go for The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fck if you wish to know why Yours Truly is loving it. I genuinely dont give a rats posterior anyway. But, honestly, this one nails the counter-intuitive way of finding whatever is amiss in life. Just wish that everybody reads it, and tries to have an unbottled, unflinching existence, because as the author says in his another book, "Everything is Fcked"! Find your hopeless realism taking you to a higher plane. At least, for me it worked. I dont ( work) , not in the denotational sense of the word. Because, my over-ambitious, over-expecting, over-unreal side just got sidelined. Read This Book!