Mother is the first and the best teacher to her children.Yes, it is true, children learn all most all the important etiquettes from their mother first and from father the next.
.Children learn 10 per cent by teachings of their parents 90 per cent by observing their parents. So parents are role modals for their children.
Be good to rear good, parents should be disciplined in order to make their children disciplined. Parents should be truthful to see their children truthful.evey act of parents directly reflects upon their children.
Do not teach your children what to do but let them learn themselves by seeing you. They may forget what you teach but they don’t forget what they saw in you.
Traditional parenting was different from modern parenting. In traditional parenting parents used to wear a fake anger on their faces to discipline their children, they were never friendly with their children but still they succeeded they used to do what they expected their children do.
In modern parenting, we all are friendly with our children, which is one of the best ways to influence some one or mould children in the way we want but the worst part of modern parenting is, we forget that our children are observing and learning from us.
We Spouses fight in front of children and abuse each other in short temper forgetting that it is laying a strong impression on the minds of our children but when it comes to teaching ethics to children we use polished language and barrowed words. As a result, we fail to pass ethics and values to our children in inheritance.
In modern days the value of relation ships is being wanished. Our mobile is a lot for us, we are living with mobile phones and we are loving our mobile phones, we spend our 3 hours with our phone but say no to our parents wish which is just exchange of a few words in conversation.We spend time with our mobile phone but we say to our children that we don’t have time to play with them . Are they not observing us, don’t they repeat the same to us. Good or bad is learnt only by getting influenced by it not by being taught Hence my advice to myself first and next to you all lets be the role modals to our children.Thank you for reading.