For wives read my 4 parts DP @ https://mouthshut.com/diary/ebjjumlqp/100-Ways-You-Can-Love-Your-Husband-HIS-WayLast-Part-4 Discuss this list with your wife. Ask her to check the ones meaningful to her, then arrange them in order of importance to her. Use the list as a basis for learning her views. Your relationship can be greatly strengthened as you learn how to use these suggestions.
- Communicate with her; never close her out.
___2. Regard her as important.
___3. Do everything you can to understand her feelings.
___4. Be interested in her friends.
___5. Ask her opinion frequently.
___6. Value what she says.
___7. Let her feel your approval and affection.
___8. Protect her on a daily basis.
___9. Be gentle and tender with her.
___10. Develop a sense of humor.
___11. Avoid sudden major changes without discussion and without giving her time to adjust.
___12. Learn to respond openly and verbally when she wants to communicate.
___13. Comfort her when she's down emotionally. Put your arms around her & hold her.
___14. Be interested in what she feels is important in life.
___15. Correct her gently and tenderly.
___16. Allow her to teach you without putting up your defenses.
___17. Make special time available to her and your children.
___18. Be trustworthy.
___19. Compliment her often.
___20. Be creative when you express your love, either in words or actions.
___21. Have specific family goals for each year.
___22. Let her buy things she considers necessary.
___23. Be forgiving when she offends you.
___24. Show her you need her.
___25. Accept her the way she is; discover her uniqueness as special.
___26. Admit your mistakes; don't be afraid to be humble.
___27. Defend her to others.
___28. Allow your wife to fail; discuss what went wrong after you've comforted her.
___29. Rub her feet or neck after a hard day.
___31. Go on romantic outings.
___32. Write her a letter occasionally, telling her how much you love her.
___33. Surprise her with a card or flowers.
___34. Express how proud you are of her.
___35. Tell her how much you appreciate her.
___36. Give advice in a loving way when she asks for it.
___37. Lead your family in their spiritual relationship with God.
___38. Prefer her to others.
___39. Don't expoect her to enjoy god's best in life.
___40. Pray for her to enjoy God's best in life.
___41. Take time to notice what she has done for you and the family.
___42. Brag about her to other people behind her back.
___43. Share your thoughts and feelings with her.
___44. Tell her abouat your job, if she's interested.
___45. Take time to see how she spends her day, at work or at home.
___46. Take care of the kids before dinner.
___47. Learn to enjoy what she enjoys.
___48. Help straighten up the house before mealtime.
___49. Let her take a bubble bath while you do the dishes.
___50. Understand her physical limitations if you have several children.
Contd....Part 2...final.