THE FOUR PILLARS TO WIN ANY GAMES OF OUR LIFE.
The first pillar is INTEGRITY....
a) Integrity, at its most basic level, is doing what you said when you said you would do it.
b) Integrity includes cleaning up the messes you have made by not doing what you said, by breaking your promises, and not being responsible for that.
c) To maintain integrity requires discipline. By discipline we mean a condition of self-control, rigor and maintaining order.
The next pillar is RELATIONSHIPS....
a) People become resources of your life. People may be the coaches for your game.
b) Powerful people creates powerful alliances with others, they have powerful resources. They allow other people to contribute to them. They network.
The third pillar is EXISTENCE....
a) By existence we not only mean that the game exists but how the game exists.
b) Possibility lives in conversation. Conversation by their nature go out of existence unless managed.
c) Keeping a possibility in existence requires having a structure, for example milestones, a visual display, a tracking form etc. You need to have something to keep the game alive in distance, time and form. Something to keep the game alive is reality.
And the last pillar is ENROLLMENT....
a) Enrollment is causing new possibilities to be present for another such that they are touched, moved, and inspired by that possibility.
b) Remember you can have any result you want for yourself and your life that you invent as a possibility and enroll others in your having gotten.