Many of us dream about reaching to stars, moving in plush limousines, wearing outfits of GUCCI, DOLCE & GABANA , eating food in 5 stars, flying our own charter plane. The choices may vary. But one thing is common, our craving for more comfort, luxury, power and authority.

This is the brighter side of the scene, what is at behind is the deep rooted pessimism lies in our hearts which stops us to come out of our current comfort zones and then aspire for these comforts.

Let’s trace out the reasons and the fatal impact of pessimism in our daily lives, why does it dominate our life so much. People look for ways of adding more and more comforts to their lives. Technological advancement is an example. Such advancements and facilities are provided by default. We have taken it for granted. We have gone so used to all these comforts provided by these technologies that we have forgotten the magnitude of hard work being done.

Let’s take an example of Thomas Alva Edison – how he was able to light the bulb after innumerable failures. Pessimism creeps in because our laziness that restricts us from standing and getting started. Why is it so, whenever we are asked to handle a big project( Believe you me , it’s not the time to do the conventional small projects that all used to do, think for the bigger one).so, when we are assigned to any big task, the first question that we usually ask is , How will this project actually materialize?.What are the odds against It.? The sense of failure originates because of the securely protected pessimism lies somewhere in our heart. I am not in favor of hitting in the dark, but taking calculated risks is the need of the hour.

If you can beat your laziness and confirm that you can work hard, you can walk on the red carpet of achievement.

The finest way to overcome this pessimist attitude of ours is by extending it a formal invitation. Before inviting it makes sure you are wearing the armor of conviction. Every time you start venturing into a new task or project, undoubtedly pessimism may creep in. This will help you in two ways; you will come to know that you are on right track. Because, in this competitive world you will only be stopped, when you are right.

Secondly, challenge yourself for that task, perspire at any level, accomplish that task, and talk to yourself then. The sub-conscious mind of yours that was bent upon rejecting challenging tasks will now starting accepting it. Moreover, a sense of self-respect will come. Because If you don’t get respect from yourself, can you expect the same from others?

Because no problem is bigger than you. As someone said, I have never been into a difficult situation, because difficulties themselves know that iam more difficult than them.