First thing'MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN' whether it is LOVE or ARRANGE. Depends on your luck. God will decide whether it's arranged or love.whatever happens at-least anyone cant blame someone for ruining their life or making it a fairytale.
Arrange marriage does not break up easily because it concerns respective elders and family Ethics. Love marriage is always tentative. Coz "LOVE HAS MILLIONS EXPECTATIONS AND WHEN FACED GROUND REALITY IT GIVES PATHETIC RESULTS".
Risk is in both type of marriage, but take the example of parents.Luv or arrange, both r same. It depends upon the individuals and their trust b/w each other.problem is ego if U overcome the egoistic attitude, then be sure marriage is a Laddu.
Based upon what Personal, Family & Social values an individual has.! One Decides, personal priority or social priority and moves on.! Family which an individual comes from has its own priority.So one should take a detail thought before taking a decision.
Nowadays, most love marriages are based on financial security and social status. They are not the real thing.
There is nothing called love marriage. either arranged by-selves or by parents and children together arrange.
Its quite common for an Indian urban to be more seductive towards luv marriage which leads him to the so called heaven, for him. But where he really goes is to the hell.
Anyway, there are some strong points about arranged marriages.
Couple can't complain'before marriage, you treated me in so n so way. Now you're changed!' Even when complaints arise it all subsides on its own in course of time.
When they face issues, entire family is with them. They made them marry so they take part. In love marriages, relatives and family never poke their heads. So, it becomes difficult in love marriages to solve issues.
Status! Parents love to flaunt that their well-qualified son/daughter, married as per their choice. A happy marriage and happy parents! Well begun is half done, you know! Besides parents always know better! I am all for Arranged matches