Recently I read somewhere that our mind thinks 60000 thoughts per day. This shows how much our life is influenced by these thoughts. Just think if you get up morning with a thought that something bad going to happen today, you will get same at the end of the day, some or the other way. Because your thoughts controls your life. Like attracts Like. When you think bad about a person,you will get chain of examples one by one about that person which proves he is bad. Same thing happens when you feel good about a person. This is the power of positiveness. It is difficult to control our thoughts,but at least we can shift it to the positive side.