I have stopped watching balika.all senseless is being shown.gauri is saying she is innocent arey how?doing same mistake again and did not listen to her parents.and she does not have patience to win trust of jagya family.behaving like a psycho.sirf rote rehne se aur khud ko innocent batane se kaam nahi chalta.anandi bhi innocent hai.but she is behaving like a responsible person of a family.
She and her family must have met first anandi and jagya family before getting married to jagya and when she was child what her parents were doing .were they not responsible for not cross checking the jagya’s family situations.WHATEVER HAPPENS WITH US WE ARE ALSO EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE.Although these matters are very sensitive but should be handled practically.fault is everyone’s - child marriage.jagya.gauri.family.anandi.i thought the serial will now project in showing anandi taking education but the story is still going like a drama.very boring and very unfair.
What I feel about child marriage is: it is wrong only in case of age i.e. girl shld be 18 and boy shld be 21.the other disadvantages like studies, partners staying in different cities, career, likings and dislikings.for all these child marriage cannot be blamed because this also happens if person marry at age say 25.child marriage was due many other good as well as ill reasons.at the age of 15-16 boy/girl gets attracted and may get into some wrong deeds so for this who should be blamed? people get married at age of 25-26 still get divorced why? where their maturity goes? who should be blamed? in case of gehna she blamed dadisa and basant.but tell me does this not happen that a girl of 18 yrs falls in love with 35 yrs old guy so is that correct? who should be blamed?
the only qualities that play important role is UNDERSTANDING, MATURITY, IMPORTANCE OF GIRL EDUCATION, LOVE, TRUST, ACCEPTING YOURSELF AND YOUR PARTNER.If jagya was afraid to open his truth regarding marriage but atleast he should have convinced his family for anandi’s education and all this should have never happened, the other friend of jagya also had child marriage but he did not blame to child marriage.so it is basically understanding, vision, loving your partner, jagya did not show maturity, WHAT GEHNA SHOUTED AT JAGYA WAS COMPLETELY RIGHT.GAURI itni hi padi likhi hai to kya ye nahi janti ki pehle jagya ko divorce ke liye bole aur phir shaadi kare.she is also wrong, matters like these should be handled with awareness and not merely because of in love.
I think what ever is going on in balika vadhu is not showing complete disadvantages of child marriage but like a drama.which I am not liking now .aaj ladki padi likhi bhi ho jaye to bhi log expect karte hai ya bolte hai ki ghar ko sambhalo, kitchen main kaam karo.koi to kehte hai bhale hi padhi likhi ho lekin shaadi ke baad kaam nahi karogi and stay at home.so basically all these problems lies in human nature.people should be made aware and live with unity and love, responsibility.