This is a beautiful article:
The man in your life.very well expressed.
Today or Tomorrow you need get a working man(no doubt you are working or not. but you need a working man. why not someone who can cook a very good food for you? .and why not a house husband who can take up all responsibilities which most of today’s woman avoid?) but you should marry with these facts as well.
Here is a boy, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do or more or lesser;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because he is as human as you are;
One, who has never bought a flat or a car or entered the kitchen in his life. just like you or your brother haven’t, as he was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to boys for their culinary achievements and also boys don’t have facilities for Reservations( say 25% as that of woman at many places).
One who is not born with a bank balance just like you and has earned every penny with a lot of efforts. just like you.
One, who has lived and loved his parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of his life;
One, who has bravely agreed to take care of the whole family and took the responsibility for every body including you in the family and the same he deserves but has never and will never ask from you. just because people say that a man has to take all serious responsibilities(why only a man and why not a woman?)
One, who is somehow expected to be bill-gates from day #1, while you
sleep and dream for that new flat / luxury car / new diamond jewelleries / and all your shopping stuffs.
One, who is expected to give you his salary even if you are working, pay utility bills, even if he is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a
father, a husband, even if he doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from him; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if he is too demanding(for a cup of tea early in the morning! Or to take care of his parents just like you would have done for your parents and you will do for your kids. a number of kids could be 2.3.4.5.6.7.n), or if he learns faster to take up responsibilities than you;
One, who has his own set of friends, and that includes girls and even women
at his workplace too, those, who he knows from school days and yet is
willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational
jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, he can smoke, drink and dance just as well as today’s girl can, but won’t, simply because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise.
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing his level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in his entire life a grand success, if you just help him some and trust him;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one he tells everything to support and asks for - your unstained support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many girls understand this. Please appreciate "HIM"
Regards
K. Sinha