The idea of marriage takes place when a boy reaches age of above twenty five till he do not know what is meant by marriage and why marriage and even if he is a single son or having brothers and sister the idea of he will be really getting married is a sort of adventure for a boy who so far is bachelor.
WHAT IS MEANT BY BACHELOR AGE.
Certain age is considered as Bachelor age, suppose a boy who is just 13 and get married what is his stauts in society.Suppose a girl just aged ten marries a boy who is 11 years and walk on the road what is their status.
THIS IS CHILD MARRIAGE AND THEY WILL RUN AWAY IF PUBLIC WATCHES THEM.
WHY.You know how funny to find not even teen aged who are married may be love marriage happens with them.
HOW WILL THIS GIRL OFTEN BEHAVE.The moment a girl becomes married status she behaves really like a woman though she is just ten years and the husband is just 11 years.
WHY THIS IS BEING WRITTEN IT IS BANNED IN INDIA CHILD MARRIAGE.
let me tell my mother got married at the age of 12 and she became pregnant at the age of 13 and got a child when she became just 14 and my father got married at the age of 22 and became father at the age of 24 reasonable even for the current time.
BUT HE MADE HER TO HAVE 8 CHILDREN , 7 SONS AND ONE DAUGHTER.
my mother gave birth to 8 children within a span of just 13 years that means she was pregnant all the years in between.
MY AUNTY GOT MARRIED AT THE AGE OF 13 And she had nearly 15 children from the year 1933 to 1960 for 27 years she got say 15 children, many males and many females ofcourse.
MY COUSIN GOT MARRIED TO A GIRL AGED 9
Yes he got married to a girl 9 years and she got a child when she attained age 13 or 12 I dont know.
MY UNCLE GOT MARRIED TO A GIRL AGED SAY TEN AND FROM her he got 12 children.
MARRIAGE IS MARRIAGE BUT THE REASON TO GET MARRIED IS NEVER CLEAR.
Indias get married because others are married and there is pressure from parents and also friends and ofcouse the victim hardly knows if it was right.
THE RIGHT AGE TO GET MARRIED IS NOT BASED ON OTHERS IN THE FAMILY.
One may be younger or older, may have sisters to be married that is not the priority, for me the right time to get married is when one is able to find the following.
1 Enough salary or income because once marriage takes place, the expenses mounts.
2 Future plan to take care of child is paramount important, today it is very expensive to take care of even
one child, infact one child is like a whole family feel now a days, the child demands heaven and earth
and demands all your time, no matter how many servants you can avail.
3 If one has to live along with parents, the home should be enough big, so privacy, romance with the
wife should never be a problem, romance at the early stages of married life is totally important, parents
hardly appreciate daughter in law in close up with their son , hence total privacy is needed.
4 Maturity takes place for a boy only after he cross more than 26 or earning enough in thousands which
ever comes early.
5 Indian marraiges are more connected with the visit of relatives for the marriage function and the
first thing a boy or girl should know IS HE OR IS SHE SUITABLE BOY OR GIRL.
6 Take years of time to select the right girl or boy, llove at first sight is differnt but to fall in love for life
is not that easy, it just evaporates.
7 Till one get married to the girl there is sort of CURIOSITY nd the second the MANGALASUTRA IS TIED
IT IS self inflicted chain on oneself.
8 Once the boy tie the knot, the burden is much heavier than ten years prision.
9 In jail there is remission for good conduct, but in marriage the more you are good there is more daming demand for the wife or versa.
10 Happily married is simply a line which cant be true, marriage is just a responsibility but to find
true happienss marriage is just no.
11 Marry in haste and repent for life.
12 I am yet to come across a single family on this earth where they know me already yes he or she
are in love with each other may be for the sake of kids but is it true.
LOVE OR HATE, MARRIAGE MEANS ONE HAS TO LOVE AND HATE AND FIND IT OFCOURSE
WORTH TRY.