This book clearly explains what women need to understand about men to keep them in love with you and vise versa. It explains that you need to give the opposite sex what it needs not what you want them to have. I was amazed by how my incorrect interpretation of things in my 4 year marriage made so many matters unnecessarily frustrating. I have also been shocked by the positive response my husband has shown to my use of these methods. He is picking up his socks, he is taking out the trash, he is talking to me and doing it gladly because I now know how to ask and how to respond to make him want to. My eyes have been opened to how deeply he already loved me without me being able to appreciate it. Don’t listen to the naysaying reviews. This book is full of truth even if it isn’t politically correct.