(1) Women misusing laws and on police believing the ’fairer sex’ :- When man beats women and womwn complains to a cop, the cops without even enquiring what happened arrest and beat up the guy.
BUT
(2)When woman beats man and the man complains to the cops, they say:-" shame on you, even a woman has hit you, thoo!" , and do not help the poor guy.
(3)Woman are either treated as whores or like godesses, with the ’lady sentiment’ being a lot in this country.
(4)On one hand, man wants his wife to listen to him and treat him like her god on, the other hand
he treats her like shit.When a woman calls for help, either tho situations take place:-
(a)A woman calling for help accusing a particular man of harassing her(whether true or false), all other people around without even asking what really happened beat up the guy.
(b)A woman when really in need of help harassed by a goonda , if he beats her and attemps to rape her,
calls for help, seeing the goonda everybody gets scared and mind their own business and lets the goonda do what he wants to the woman in fear of getting beaten up.
(5)One thing I don’t like in most men, they want an educated and working woman as a wife but at the same timeshe should be obedient to him and be dependent on him.How chauvenistic!Also it is the upbringing, males are given too much importance by the women and they show their dependence and men feel they are weak.Women are equally responsible for making men the way they are.
(6)There is a ladies seat and a ladies buses only for ladies.O.K., I agree this is because of eve teasing that used to happen in the past and is even happening nowadays.In the past since women were not getting much exposure, there were more men teasing women than vica versa.Now , since women are getting almost the same exposure as men , there are also cases of women ragging men (adamteasing). as there are also physically strong women and physically weak men which many people may not agree.
These physically weak men need a seat in the bus, so there should be a seperate gents bus and a gents seat if you keep a seperate bus/seat for women.
Physically strong and robust or healthy women can afford to stand , who can say no?
(7) Another thing, this country is so socially backward that even now in the name of culture they do not want to move with the times(80% of the population).Culture is different, way of living is different, people mix the two and most men manipulate the term"this is our culture" to keep women at home or under purdah (most conservative families do).
(8)Many women who consider themselves as feminists expext men to open the door for them give them a seat in the bus.If they really are feminists, they should learn to physically defend themselves from even the most physically strong men by learning martial arts or by exercising and do what most men do equally well.