Secondshaadi. com I s a fud I actually registered as a member 7 days back hoping to get a good user experience. I found that there are loads of problems
1) The server itself is quite slow and while browsing I keep getting My SQL database error which means the database server werent responding
2) The system does not recognise me as a premium member so many times and I also get auto e mail asking me to upgrade to a premium membership.
3) There are loads of unverified and false looking profiles. Lot of spam
4) When I initiate chat, the other use has to accept it for a dialogue. There is no system of varification if the other user has accpeted or rejected the chat. I just have to keep waiting if somebody will respond.
5) The site works extremely slow.
6) Online support is more then useless