Its been approx. six months since I came to know the reality of this guy from shaadi.com. I had written the review earlier at MouthShut_Official.com and deleted it later on..as all I wanted was to forget and forgive. But this guy is a dangerous one and I have been getting harassment calls. I donot want other innocent girls to suffer because of these matrimonial sites. Let me put it back so that anyone dealing with such fakes in future could be careful. Moreover, I am concerned about the safety those girls whom he is giving scholarships for higher study through his NGO called https://equmeed.org (he can be seen giving awards although he has removed his profile of mentorship (lol) from the site). How would a sexually deprived and character-less person treat these innocent girls? I am scared at the mere thought of this.
I dont know how long will I live. But. This was what I wrote earlier:
I too was duped of emotions by a profile name "US_Engineer_78_09" at shaadi.com. The guy claimed to be "Amitpal saini" told he was working at Florida Cancer Research Institute. He told me that he was divorced from last two years. He shared with me the grievances he had with his ex. We shared backgrounds and kinda clicked well. We chatted for about 6 months before meeting in India last December. He too seemed so attached to me but wanted more time to know eachother better. In the whole process, I ignored other proposals and made some choices in my life so as to move closer to his place to save us both from future hassles. And mind you I was very well educated to move any where around globe. So was never attracted to his NRI stuff. He came out as my old batchmate and appeared to be really really nice. I could never suspect what he was saying.
But yukkk.. one fine day I found her wife’s profile (https://facebook.com/amarjit.kaur.9085) (new profile: https://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002336258531 ) on facebook with both of their pictures. I could make out... the pictures were taken in India just after 2-3 days we met. He must be talking to me while his wife sleeping beside him. Shittt!! This was so insane. He was also on facebook: https://facebook.com/spa0211 (Google profile: https://plus.google.com/118419493652880045703). Both were having nice communication with each other and with family/friends. He was actually living a happy married life since past 2 years. For all this time he had been lying to me. And the days when we were not chatting.. I found from her pictures that he was away on honeymoon trips with her!! Shall I vomit now?? All his talks.. expressions.. chats.. emails.. phone calls.. gifts.. everything was a lie!
It was disgusting. I do not trust shaadi.com now. As they put no efforts on their own to check genuineness of profile. I am hurt definitely since I been sharing an intimate relationship with him. He was actually two timing. I want to file police case. I can share all the chats and emails and other ridiculous stuff he would do infront of webcam but then. Is this revenge worth it? Can Indian police system really help? He is known as a ’good’ person in his family and friends. His dad (Surinder Singh Saini) was ex-MLA of Mukerian in Punjab. I should have been cautious since politics was in his genes and that too from rural Punjab. In India, what else do we expect from politicians and their heirs. This is so Sick!!
Its difficult to move on with such experiences from shaadi.com. I hate Shaadi.com. I am putting this information here so that other people who have interacted with this shaadi.com id or with email
"engg_punjabi_2009@yahoo.com" or "apsingh8010@gmail.com" or “ap8010@gmail.com” should be aware!! Kindly donot get involved with donation to this NGO too. The people behind it are too low on moral values and social ethics. I have been getting threatening calls from his cousins/friends.
Also, those of you who are married. Stay aware!! You never know what your partners are doing behind your back. The matrimonial sites are so vulnerable and so are people like me who are putting trust on these sites... in an honest attempt to find a soulmate... only to be left shocked and hurt!