Parenting skills are very difficult for those who understands and its very easy for those who dont.You should love your kids but at the same time loving too much spoils them. You should not give that much love which spoils them.We must always guide them.But if you guide them too much then they will lost their confidence in your absence.Thats why its a great art to parents kids. While guiding lets not forget we are teaching them.Let them do their own but lets tell them how to.Take an example of doing their homework given from school.If they dont know how to do just make them understand then let them do their own this way we can give them confidence.