Its very common to hear and read about assault cases with women. Sometimes it seems outside your home, in college, school or in work place women are not safe. Though one can not take guarantee about being safe inside home also. There are many cases where ladies wee getting shamed inside their own home with hands of their own people. So for your own sake and safety every lady must be very watchful about her surroundings and must know how to avoid any mishaps. As we all know crime against women is at its peak but keeping some tips in mind can make you protect from getting in trouble
If you are a working lady then always take safe routes and use reputed cab or transport services. Try to avoid getting late at nights and do not take lift from strangers. Be smart and presentable but if you feel someone is trying to harass you put a stop on him immediately by confronting.
If your work needs lots of travelling to different places then always inform your parents, staff and friends regarding your trips. You must share your available phone number or any contact address so that you can be contacted. If you need to stay in a hotel for your work do check about hotels reputation and other details before cheeking in.
Learn some self defense tricks, this is very useful and learning some easy self defense technique can save you from the offender. I would suggest kids should learn self defense form the school age only. Now at any age you can easily know the technique by which you can punish your assaulter and can be safe. Imagine if some rowdy man try to grab you and he gets a punch straight on hie nose, he would definitely get a warning. Also there are many short self defense programme available which prove kind of life insurance for ladies.
If you live alone in the city then be very careful before choosing a renting place for you. You must enquire everything so that later you dont be inside some trouble. Change old locks once you shift and always close all doors, balcony and windows before you go to bed and when you go out from your house. Make a habit of messaging your people once you home and stay in touch by tiny messengers.
We all use social media but some young ladies and other people go beyond extent, Never share much about yourself, your travelling plans and about your everyday routines on social networking sites. You dont know how the criminal is keeping any eye on you and he can easily collect information about you from social networking sites. Sharing about your timings of reaching home, office, college or to other places is not cool but can give you a headache.
These days pepper spray is available easily which can give a good lesson to the pervert minded people. Keep that in your bag but use only if needed. If you travel by bus, metro or other public transport no need to be friend with every regular person you meet and also do not share your number. I personally feel its better to not be over friendly and stay away from suffering.
One more point which is very considerable is being confident, it a person finds you very self assured he will think one time before taking liberty. If some wrong situation comes dont be scared but try to confront it with your smartness and self defense ways. Always keep your phone battery charged so you can at least call someone to get help.
W omens are not safe anywhere but that doesnt mean that the filthy minded criminals can take the world. There are some ways which can make women life easy and also the laws must be very stringent so rapist and assaulter s think thousands times before committing a crime.