We all have our past...when you get involve with someone at this age (50's), you can't help but accept that the person has his own past. I am having a hard time dealing with this. I have my own past but nothing as colorful as his which is harder to deal with. I am no saint neither do I think I am evil. The question raised now is how to love unconditionally...no buts! Everyday is a getting to know process and each day a different side shows up, not that I am complaining or what but dealing with it is my concern. Anyways, I am grateful still that I am blessed. I think I should look at the brighter side of life and love unconditionally.