Nowadays everyone has become so busy in their work that nobody actually thinks what is good and what is not. Kindness is not the only thing which defines goodness. There are many other factors too. Following are some of the factors which I have analysed to be good :-

1. First and the for most thing is to identify whether you are a good person or not. You might not be a bad person but are you a good person? Guys, give it a thought. It really helps.

   
   




2. Be a good listener - Some people are much more talkative and some are very less talkative. Normally people are of a view that people who are of reserved nature are boring. People who are eloquent and chattering all the time dominate people who are less talkative. So they hardly get a chance to talk in a crowd. So if you are a good listener, he/she would feel like contribute his/her ideas. So be a better listener than talker.(This is straight from my heart because I have experienced this)

   
   




3. Love yourself - It is not easier to love others. First you have to love yourself. You can do this by caring and doing a small act of charity. Spread love.

   
   




4. Don't compare yourself with others - Never ever compare yourself with others. Someone may have it better than you in life,but at the same time many have it much worse. We make our-self miserable by comparing with others. Instead we are wasting our time and energy which would have been utilized in building your inner resources.

   
   




5. Do not try to be like anyone else- Just be yourself. Those who really love you would be with you forever and they would accept the way you are. You should have an attitude which depicts "LET ME BE ME".

   
   




6. Do not bully and don't get bullied either. Do what you heart says.

   
   




7. Look at the bright side of the things - If there is any controversy, try to look at the brighter side by suggesting a solution. Don't simply follow people and make the situation worse.

   
   




8. Be Balanced- It really sucks when your heart is not in synchronization with your mind. But maintain a balance. Instead of acting in an extreme manner find a middle way and tackle with the situations.

   
   

Warm Regards,

Mithila Kotibhaskar