Sex is a taboo subject; still I am trying to write on it. This post is not necessarily about sex but on institution that we call marriage. We all believe in the alchemy of marriage, it is such a platform where two people of different sexes (Till now I believe different, I don’t know how the law will define the same sex marriage in coming days or years)exchanges their sexual freedom
Years back when I was in school I was madly in love (though one sided) with a girl or I was having crush to her. I spoke about this to one of my teacher and she replied that it is neither both love or crush just some hormones in my body that wants expression. So all it is the hormones then all great Victorian love stories actually are not classics but chemistry or biochemistry.
Why do the marriage consider the licensing of sex, marriage in most of the cases or all of the cases followed by the sex, as we see the scenes of suhagraat just after the marriage. Is sex a ritual in the anatomy of marriage? I simply believe, No, absolutely not. If it is just exchanging chromosomes then why do be need social sanction for it, only because a question or concept of morality not necessarily legality attached with it.
Again the question arises, what is moral and immoral. To sleep with a prostitute is immoral and sleeping with your wife is moral. If both the process has same consequences, as just transferring the equation of chromosomes, then why this big dilemma of morality appears,until you are not doing anything against the law of nature and low of the world. Our law and I believe most laws of the world uses the world legal and illegal instead of moral and immoral when it comes to define the Individual freedom.
I am here not supporting or propagating the free sex but my point is that sex must not be attached with marriage. We should not make the clear boundary lines and shall be liberal while using the term morality