I have written a review for what my husband has given me for a gift. Now I will write about what I have given him. I think it is better to be creative and show him how much I appreciate him rather than trying to think of what to buy as the perfect gift. These are things I have given to my husband that he has liked, but I am sure other men out there appreciate them as well.
Favourite Meal: First, you have to know really what his favourite meal is. Yes, he can say he likes something, but you have to be a bit more observant when he is eating a meal. Which meal does he seem to go back for seconds, and which meal does he actually brag about to his mother that you have prepared? That is the best sign instead of asking him outright what his favourite meal is.
When he comes in the door, have the lights a bit dimmed. Set the table with your best dinnerware, and light some candles. Using your best tablecloth and dinnerware just for him shows how special he is. Have him get comfortable, and offer him something to drink while you serve up his dinner on the plate. Play some of his favourite soft music. Relax during the meal. I am sure he will be pleasantly surprised you fixed his favourite dish. If he does not want to talk, and just eat indulge him. Let him know you made the meal for him and this is his night.
Spa/Bathing: If he is not into the bubble baths like you are, be creative. Remember, this is his night. Something like a baby oil massage and a foot rub can be appreciated. Once he is slippery with the oil, he can take a soothing bath or shower to rinse the oils off. If he asks you to join him, do not hesitate. This is his night after all. He might have always wanted you in the shower and tonight he is bold enough to ask.
Expressing Love: This is something that he will always remember. Be receptive to him when he is wanting to physically express his love. Rejecting him is not part of a perfect gift or letting him know how much he means to you. However, you do not have to do something that compromises your moral beliefs or will cause you or him physical harm. I think we should, as husbands and wives, both be sensitive to the physical needs of one another. Not just as a special gift. However, your husband will know how much he is desired by you when you are receptive to his touch. Husbands need to feel sexy just like wives. Also, they need to know you are not taking this opportunity to make him feel obligated to buy or do anything for you. Expressing love should never be used as a weapon.
Dessert: His favourite sweet dish should be served after expressing the love you two share. This will relax him even more, and let him know that you wanted the evening to be complete!
This will be a fond memory for both of you. Also, this gift can be taken at any time. Sort of a mini vacation during the week or to start or end a relaxing weekend. remember, make your man feel appreciated and sexy. He will love it. Email me for further suggestions!