Women! bad enuf! wife! worse.
anyway hi folks me back! A hapy new year to all of you out there.
Please women - the second most difficult thing to do; the most difficult thing to do is try and understand what exactly they want.
pleasing your wife is very easy and very HARD!. sometimes a glance is suffice to say a lot sometimes a whisper and ocassionally the gifts system and worst when you have to go into details to give explanations.
I have tried all these tricks with my wife and it works however the aftermath is often unpredictable.
we had a bad fight some months back and we didnt talk to each other.i ignored her totally for four days and then I thought it had gone too far. I bought her a bouquet of eight roses four red and four yellow(red for love and yellow for frienship - or whatever its supposed to mean) - two for each day we didnt speak and then I gave it to her rather casually . she took it rather casually. sll this in the evening. later that night not just peace was made.
another day I ordered a pearl necklace on the internet for her. first I got the appreciations due and then the brickbats coz she got the credit card bill by sheer accident - Rs 5000/-.why did u spend so much money? well.what can you say.
anyway another instance was the best-.her b’day was coming up;i bought her a dress . it was a dumb selection and probably not the right color for her and it was a few hundreds. actually I was cash strapped those days.i bought it he previous day and kept it in my personal locker at home. she knew that I didnt have much cash and didnt say anything about the b’day itself in the morning.we didnt discuss it at all in the morning. In her typical way she started to broach the subject of what do do in the evening. I said we will think about it- as usual didnt say anything more.
Evening we came home and I said get ready we have to go out immediately and gave a believable story to the effect.
she didnt say anything and was begining to literally make faces.i got the dress from the locker and put it in a cover and hold her that we should take this along.I had reserved a table for two in TopKai- a coochiecoo restuarant on MG Road(Symphony 24th floor).Its always candlelit dinners over there.She was begining to get a hang of what I was up to . We were seated and then I gave her the dress ad wished her.You should have seen the look in her eyes! Man my day was made!
All you guyswho read this remember just one thing it doesnt matter what you give her make it look special- only for her
dont give thme gifts too often they get bored.
money doesnt usually matter.the emotional and thought value matters
the ocassional dinner and bouquet does a fantastic job
take her out for good movies.
compliment her cooking even though you might want to call the ambulance. she will learn coz she does everything to please you nd well the rewards after sundown are always there .you get the hint dont you?
well take care - you got only one wife nd take my word for it -keep it that way!.