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By: mouneet | Posted: Dec 13, 2008 | General | 560 Views (Updated Dec 13, 2008)

I've lived in India since childhood. Thats 29 years of my life. Being born in a Gujarati family, I've been pampered with so much love and care from the family. To the extent that I was not allowed to do anything wrong. Each decision of mine was modified by the elders so that I don't go wrong. Now that I've begun to understand life on my own, I've started asking myself what is Wrong and Right? Who decides it? It may be Right according to me and Wrong according to my parents, it can be contradictory. And it happened to me too. There were times when I felt things should be done in a particular way and my parents took objections. But, then, I felt it was Right. Why is it that I can't decide what's right for me?


Coming to think of it, I realised that everything is just neutral. There's nothing right or wrong. Its each person's perspective - how they see it. Like so many times, inspite of taking a so called right decision, we land up in deep trouble and sometimes a wrong decision really changes our life for the better.


I've come to a stage in life, where I see everything as everything. I don't label anything as Wrong or Right. If I feel like doing something, I just do it. If I feel I should not, I don't. It doesn't mean it was wrong or right, it just means that I didn't want to do that or I wanted to do that.


As I am facing each day with this attitude, I've started living happily. I learn from my mistakes, I grow, I make mistakes, I learn from them and I grow. Its just amazing. I just see to it that I don't make the same mistake again, rather make a new mistake each time. And I've realised that if I stop making mistakes, thats when I've stopped growing, because I am not learning anything new.


I just do what I feel I want to do with the freedom from Wrong or Right. And its an amazing thing to do.


All this what I feel, may sound wrong to you or may be right.


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Freedom, wrong, right, Living, happiness, grow
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